Key Focus Areas
Moving Beyond Superficial “How Are You?”
Examine why quick, one-word responses or forced small talk can undermine genuine engagement—and how to invite more open, reflective participation.
Designing Relational Check-Ins
Learn practical formats—like reflective prompts, scaled emotional indicators, or story-sharing games—that embrace diverse communication styles and comfort levels.
Balancing Care & Capacity
Explore strategies to maintain emotional safety and hold space for vulnerability, while preventing compassion fatigue or overburdening leaders and participants.
Who Should Attend
Educators & Youth Program Leaders
Seeking to form stronger relationships with students through purposeful, consistent check-ins that go beyond “any questions?”Nonprofit & Community Organizers
Looking to incorporate deeper, trust-building dialogue at the start of meetings—without derailing agendas or staff well-being.Workplace Managers & Team Leads
Aiming to foster supportive, people-centered cultures where individuals feel seen, heard, and respected.Counselors & Mental Health Advocates
Interested in offering gentle but authentic wellness checks that create safe, inclusive sharing spaces.
Learning Objectives
Reframe Check-Ins as Relational Anchors
Shift from perfunctory greetings to small yet powerful rituals that root community members in empathy, presence, and curiosity.
Implement Inclusive & Consistent Practices
Develop practical, time-conscious methods for group reflection, ensuring every participant’s emotional boundaries and schedules are respected.
Maintain Healthy Facilitator Boundaries
Understand how to uphold your own well-being while guiding check-ins, setting clear limits, and normalizing self-care in group settings.
Why It Matters
Genuine human connection doesn’t require lengthy counseling sessions or burdensome emotional labor. When done thoughtfully, even a few minutes of intentional check-in can ease tension, strengthen rapport, and cultivate empathy. This practice is especially crucial when people are navigating stress, isolation, or major changes—allowing groups to build collective resilience. By learning to ask “How are you, really?” in ways that resonate, leaders and peers help each other feel supported, valued, and better equipped to engage productively.
Is This Workshop For You?
Noticing your “mental health moments” or icebreakers feel forced or superficial?
We’ll share engaging, quick activities that invite authenticity without pushing personal boundaries.Concerned that leaders end up processing heavy emotions alone or taking on extra burdens?
Explore how to structure check-ins to spread care responsibility, establish resource sharing, and maintain healthy facilitators.Seeking a balance between connection and practical agendas?
Learn strategies to keep meetings or classes on track while honoring participants’ need for genuine relational space.Ready to embed a culture of everyday well-being and emotional presence in your team or classroom?
We’ll dive into consistent, accessible rituals—like thematic prompts or rotating facilitators—that integrate smoothly into routine operations.
If these questions resonate, How Are You, Really?: Integrating Check-Ins That Aren’t Performative offers the insights and tools to transform superficial greetings into meaningful, sustaining moments of communal care.