Key Focus Areas
Exposing Perfectionism’s Roots in White Supremacy
Recognize how perfectionist tendencies—like refusal to acknowledge mistakes or the demand for immediate excellence—mirror the “paternalism” and “either/or” thinking inherent in white supremacist culture.
Identifying Perfectionism Cycles
Break down how relentless self-monitoring, hyper-productivity, or fear of failure entrench patterns of internalized oppression, harming mental health and collective well-being.
Fostering Anti-Racist, Imperfection-Friendly Spaces
Explore communal accountability and supportive structures that value experimentation, rest, and learning from mistakes without shaming or penalizing them.
Who Should Attend?
Educators & Coaches
Interested in addressing the perfectionist mindset in lesson design or student support—especially in contexts looking to decolonize their practices.Workplace Leaders & HR Professionals
Attempting to shift organizational culture away from top-down “excellence” mandates that ignore emotional labor or psychological safety.Activists, Community Organizers, & Nonprofit Staff
Seeking to break cycles of burnout, saviorism, or unrealistic expectations in social justice environments.Anyone Struggling with Perfectionism
Ready to dismantle personal “must be perfect” scripts, discovering how these beliefs connect to broader oppressive structures—and forging a more forgiving relationship with themselves.
Learning Objectives
Trace the Historical & Cultural Dimensions of Perfectionism
Examine how colonization, capitalism, and white supremacy foster unrealistic standards of self-discipline and output.
Identify Internal & Collective Triggers
Pinpoint scenarios where perfectionistic demands—like the pressure to “prove” oneself—emerge and how they uphold inequity.
Adopt Growth-Based, Anti-Racist Alternatives
Develop practical methods (e.g. collaborative goal-setting, flexible deadlines, vulnerability in leadership) that defy perfectionist norms and encourage empathetic, justice-aligned outcomes.
Why It Matters
Though often hailed as a virtue, perfectionism can quietly undercut authentic connection, creativity, and communal trust—reinforcing rigid hierarchies and scapegoating mistakes rather than leveraging them for growth. By unveiling its ties to white supremacy culture, “Breaking Perfectionism Cycles” empowers individuals and teams to rewrite the script: honoring imperfection, welcoming iterative learning, and fostering human-centered practices that prioritize collective thriving. Embracing imperfection is not about lowered standards—it’s about liberating ourselves from oppressive ideals that hamper genuine progress and well-being.
Is This Workshop For You?
Constantly feeling “not enough,” stuck in self-judgment for every minor slip or perceived shortcoming?
We’ll explore how perfectionism is not merely a personal flaw but a cultural script rooted in oppression.Observing that your organization’s relentless “excellence” ironically stifles innovation, comfort with risk, or employee morale?
Learn to integrate anti-racist frameworks that celebrate learning moments over punishing mistakes.Wanting to infuse more humility, curiosity, and rest into your daily life or leadership style, but unsure how to wean yourself off a “24/7 hustle” or “always correct” attitude?
Gain strategic reflections, boundary-setting tips, and collective accountability methods for long-term change.Curious how shaping a “safe-to-fail” environment can deepen relationships and amplify inclusive success in your classrooms, campaigns, or workplaces?
We’ll offer step-by-step guidance for pivoting away from controlling perfectionist cycles toward robust, co-created solutions.
If you’re ready to unlearn oppressive standards and embrace a more compassionate, dynamic approach to excellence, “Breaking Perfectionism Cycles” offers the insights and actionable steps to transform both personal habits and organizational culture for the better.